Find Your Love
“You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.” - Sam Keen
Signs a Friendship Is Turning Into Love. She’s always there when you need her. He’s the person you most look forward to seeing at work. You are good friends and …
Learn to have fun when you notice feelings begin to develop. Let yourself explore your feelings for love and avoid worrying about where things will go and what will happen. Be open to enjoying the company of someone else. Take advantage of the surge of dating at 40 and meet someone who shares the same liberated energy as you.
Keep your options open when you’re dating. Avoid worrying about some of the hang-ups that annoy you but aren’t deal-breakers such as if your mate has been through a bad break up or has children.
Prepare yourself to understand that you may not be the first love your mate had; at 40, it’s quite likely that you’ll be dating someone who has been through a divorce or has a child or two. Learn to accept that you both may have a bit of past relationship baggage, but use that experience to get to know each other and share common ground.
If you have a “type”, forget about it. Limiting yourself to finding someone who has a certain physical appearance or job is going to hold you back in the long run. You may find your true love to be someone you never would have expected.
Finding true love today is not how our parents did it. Nowadays you can find true love from the comfort of your own home, while sitting in your pajamas. If you do …
Be yourself. Never pretend to be something you’re not to get someone to like you. You can’t have true love if the other person doesn’t know the real you. Even if you think you’re totally unlovable, rest assured, there IS someone out there who will love you just as you are.
Along life’s road, we lose contact with people that we later wish we had not. Whether by choice or circumstance, a lost love, or simply a friend, connections that …
“If you believe in yourself, if you are without fear, you will also be tolerant, non-aggressive and find love.” - Rollo Armstrong
Find Your Love
